Is there a guarantee I will be matched with someone?
As a member of the exclusive list, there are no guarantees. We do our very best to match as many women as possible, but we ultimately search for what our client wants and needs. If you are interested in a more proactive approach, consider becoming an actual client. Go to www.CaliberMatch.com for more information, or contact any of the Caliber Staff.

How honest do I need to be on my application?
Very. Completely. We are not here to judge you. We are here to make the best possible matches for our clients. What you think is a bad thing or a personality flaw MAY be just want someone else is looking for or needs. We also run an extremely thorough background check before any actual meeting occurs, so be honest. If we find any disturbing conflicts between what you provided us and what your background search comes up with, we will most likely remove you from the database.

Why would a man pay to meet someone?
For the same reason you are here! It's hard to find good quality men and women "out there", and it's worth it to have someone pre-screen and search for you. Some men consider it outsourcing, as they outsource many important tasks in their daily work life. Some men are just tired of spending so much time to look and not find anyone worthwhile. Some men just don't have the time to look, and some just don't know where to look. 

How do I know you have my best interests in mind?
We only consider ourselves successful if both the man and woman are happy. It wouldn't do us any good to ignore your needs in this process. We don't take our Caliber Girls for granted, and we want you to recommend your single girlfriends, as well as single guy friends, to our company. 

Why do the women need to pay an Application Fee?
We pride ourselves on running a thorough background check on EVERYONE, not just the men. Everyone that we accept as a Candidate or Client must pass this screening process first. Additionally, our Caliber Men are very serious about this process. They spend good time and money in order to find a partner who is equally as serious. The Application Fee helps us determine who is truly serious about finding love and who is not.

What if I don't live somewhere where you are "open" or planning on opening in the near future?
If you are honestly open and able to moving for the right man, you can indicate this on your application. There are men out there as well who are willing to consider women who don't live near them but will move if the relationship goes that direction. If you aren't up for moving, you can still fill out an application. If/when we open your location, you'll already be there. But we can't guarantee any matches if you are far away! We do offer a custom package to paying clients that aren't in an open location, so if you would like more information on that, please contact us.

What are the dates like?
It depends. For the most part, the dates are arranged between the staff and the client. Of course we'll make sure the logistics work for you, too. They will always be in a public location, and there are very strict rules you will need to abide by. After each date, we will check in with your for you feedback, and to find out if you're interested in a second date or not.

What about the events or functions?
These can be any array of things, from a "speed date" type function to a mini-date to a cocktail party. When we contact you, we will most definitely explain the upcoming date, event, or function to you.

What is included in the thorough background check?
We run the most detailed background check available. This covers a criminal check, lawsuits, judgments, liens, bankruptcies, property ownership, address history, phone numbers, relatives and associates, neighbors, marriage/divorce records, and more.

Do you have rules?
Absolutely. You will see the rules in our application's "Agreement" page, but they are all to protect the safety of all parties involved. We also have rules to protect our company and staff. 

Can I be removed from the Caliber Girls database?
Yes. If you are dishonest on the application or provide us with false information and/or photographs, we will remove you. If you break any of our rules, you will be removed. We set rules for a reason, and they are not to be taken lightly.

How are my matches screened?
All clients go through the same rigorous background check. After they pass that, they go through a personal interview with one of our staff, and that interview is then screened by Emily. We hold both our Caliber Girls AND our Caliber Men to a high standard.

Why can't I see my potential matches' pictures before I meet them?
We're all guilty of making quick judgments and rushing to conclusions based on how someone looks. Unfortunately, most of the time we are wrong. We'd prefer you trust us and keep an open mind, and not jump to conclusions. You can't judge a book by its cover, remember?

Do I have any say in whether or not we go on a second date?
Of course. Both parties have to agree to a second date. Since you will be relaying this decision to a staff person, you don't need to feel pressure, one way or the other. Be upfront and honest with us!

Do I HAVE to give him my contact information if I'm not interested?
Absolutely not! Don't "be nice" and comply just to avoid hurting his feelings. We can coach you more on this, but you can simply be polite and say that you're supposed to wait until your follow-up phone call with staff to do this.

Will you give him my contact information or other information if he asks?
No. It is 110% up to you if you would like him to have your phone number. We will only give him your phone number and/or email address, never your address. And again, this is completely up to you.

How many matches does it typically take before meeting "the one"?
Obviously everyone is different. You could meet your perfect mate on the first date, or it could take awhile. Just promise yourself to be open-minded and see what comes your way! Hopefully Caliber Match will change your life forever!